Just give me a reason, just a little bit's enough

It is not about who you think will be there for you. Sometimes, people are just busy and caught up with their own lives that they cannot take time out for you, or they may seem rather distracted or distant from you. It is all about the timing.

I don't believe in fate, but sometimes it's just the way things are. 

You may need someone at this point in time, but they may be too busy to pay attention to you and listen to your every qualm. They might very well want to and have the heart to be there for you, but it just so happens that it isn't the right time for them. Fate will have it that you have to go through this tough time alone. 

When you make the effort to reach out to someone, most times it may seem like they are not reciprocating your thoughtfulness and you may think that you are putting in more than them but we have to take a step back and see that, there were times they put in the effort too and we brushed them off just as easily. Maybe they're busy. Maybe they just need some time on their own. The world doesn't revolve around us.  

I think when we push people away, we need to at least give them a reason for it. Keeping silent doesn't help because they may be thinking about what the fuck they did that pissed you off. It may not be related to them but it would be good to let them know. I've realised this after so many people have asked me what they did that pissed them off, and why I'm avoiding them. I'm thankful for these people because they cared and dared to ask me in the face. Most times it's not you, it's me. 

Don't expect people to treat you the same way you treat them. Treat them good because it's what you willingly will.
Of course if they treat you like shit and it's beyond tolerance, stop hanging out with them right.